when a problem or fault arise
nobody will ever want to take blame for that
i mean, under normal circumstances
man are selfish and defensive
people will protect themselves
people will blame others for all the problems
it is perfectly normal for man to do that
but, i don't think this is the way to live your life
if you want to live your life with greatest satisfcation
"do unto others what you want others to do unto you"
if you want people to be considerate
you first gotta be considerate
if you want to make more friends
you first gotta be friendly
when will people ever learn that we should always
SIT BACK, RELAX, and do some REFLECTIONS
hourly, daily, weekly, monthly, yearly
with reflections, comes with evaluations
analytical skills improved when you start analysing the situation
solutions will be formed
and changes will be the products
reflections is not REFLECTING on what others have done
reflections is not EVALUATING other people's fault
but reflection should be, by right, thinking of what are the things we ourselves had done it right or wrong
i know its hard to do so
because we all still have a very selfish immature mind set that the world revolve around us
probably there are people who don't think this way anymore
but, you may not think this way
sometimes, you might be behaving in this manner
that's when you need to do reflections
the more reflections you do
the more mature you can become
and the more things you will know
not only about yourself
also about others
because you don't think of yourself first
you think of others before self now
there's nothing wrong in thinking that the other party is at fault sometimes
but first thing first
have you ever considered yourself being the source of any fault or problem?
nobody is perfect
if you seek forgiveness
you gotta give even more forgiveness
if you seek love
you gotta give even more love
if you seek grace
you gotta give even more grace
isn't this the way of life?
we all know the importance of communicating
but, how many of us are really willing to communicate?
how many of us are actually holding on to secrets which we never share with our friends?
how many of us claim that we loved each other as friends, yet, do not treat each others as one?
our actions reflects them all
there's always a mark there
which marks where the relationship will stay
many times we keep telling others that they don't understand us
do you ask yourself that many times that why didn't we open ourselves up and tell others more about ourselves?
unless you are willing to open up to others
then don't say that people don't understand you
because you didn't even give them the chance to
so, where you want that mark to be at?
it takes two hands to clap
:)
nobody will ever want to take blame for that
i mean, under normal circumstances
man are selfish and defensive
people will protect themselves
people will blame others for all the problems
it is perfectly normal for man to do that
but, i don't think this is the way to live your life
if you want to live your life with greatest satisfcation
"do unto others what you want others to do unto you"
if you want people to be considerate
you first gotta be considerate
if you want to make more friends
you first gotta be friendly
when will people ever learn that we should always
SIT BACK, RELAX, and do some REFLECTIONS
hourly, daily, weekly, monthly, yearly
with reflections, comes with evaluations
analytical skills improved when you start analysing the situation
solutions will be formed
and changes will be the products
reflections is not REFLECTING on what others have done
reflections is not EVALUATING other people's fault
but reflection should be, by right, thinking of what are the things we ourselves had done it right or wrong
i know its hard to do so
because we all still have a very selfish immature mind set that the world revolve around us
probably there are people who don't think this way anymore
but, you may not think this way
sometimes, you might be behaving in this manner
that's when you need to do reflections
the more reflections you do
the more mature you can become
and the more things you will know
not only about yourself
also about others
because you don't think of yourself first
you think of others before self now
there's nothing wrong in thinking that the other party is at fault sometimes
but first thing first
have you ever considered yourself being the source of any fault or problem?
nobody is perfect
if you seek forgiveness
you gotta give even more forgiveness
if you seek love
you gotta give even more love
if you seek grace
you gotta give even more grace
isn't this the way of life?
we all know the importance of communicating
but, how many of us are really willing to communicate?
how many of us are actually holding on to secrets which we never share with our friends?
how many of us claim that we loved each other as friends, yet, do not treat each others as one?
our actions reflects them all
there's always a mark there
which marks where the relationship will stay
many times we keep telling others that they don't understand us
do you ask yourself that many times that why didn't we open ourselves up and tell others more about ourselves?
unless you are willing to open up to others
then don't say that people don't understand you
because you didn't even give them the chance to
so, where you want that mark to be at?
it takes two hands to clap
:)